So giving her space would be the obvious choice, but do I give her enough so that she can ring my neck, and with it the relationship?

I don't know...

I just wish I could make it easier for her, but on the other hand - she's got it pretty easy. I've backed off and I'm doing my own thing...Would it really help though? Help save our reslationship - help save us!

You know how they say every bowl has a lid, well in this case this is my lid and I don't want it gone. Maybe we are to serious and we should 'cool' down. I just don't see the point in going back...

Is there a point in going back, or should you take it as it comes???