How to...??? I don't think anyone knows to be honest. This is probably one of the questions that are never going to be answered and we'll all just have to trot allong and figure it out ourselfes.
My girl and I are going through a rough patch and she wants space, not in a bad way though, or so I hope. She just wants me to not seek so much attention, but how do I back off? When I want to spend every minute of every day with her.
I know giving her the space she wants is for the greater good of our relationship, but I'm not sure how to handle it. How to let it not bother me, and then thjere's the question of - "Is it me??".
Hopefully this is just a stage that woman go through and I should just understand, but all of this brings me back to yesterday's problem - I wish I was older...
So if ever you know how to solfe my dilemma, please help. I don't want to lose what's dearest to me...
nambaroon
If she asking for space and she also cares enough for you to mean what she has said with more sincerity than means of breaking up then respect her wish and do give her the space she is asking you by not wanting to be around and with her 24/7. It is a pleasure to look foward to meeting someone we care for if we have not seen them for sometime.
If on the other hand using give-me-some-space is her means of loosening the relationship into a gradual cooling off and separation, again it is best to create the space and by doing so you'll be respecting yourself if her intent is a brake-up.
In either case, you need to find some way of keeping away and wait for it to unravel. It is just very likely that she wants to miss you rather than dis you.
Good luck